Attuned Touch Only Zone

❎ Attuned touch only zone ❎

If I could only teach one meta skill to every humanimal it would be attunement.

In giving bodywork I am attuning to the impact of my touch on the receiver. When you are using significant weight, this becomes even more crucial. Only move at the speed and depth of being able to sense your impact on the other person{s}. Start low, go slow. In bodywork someone’s attunement level is not falsifiable, unlike potentially empty words.

As an AFAB autistic raised in an intergenerational war refugee trauma / emotional abuse context I was trained to turn my hyper sensitivity to tracking the wellbeing of those around me to survive as a helpless child dependant on my caregivers. As I process from the bottom up, I am taking in an enormous set of data and forming a perspective {40 per cent more sensory stimuli then allistics at minimum, and much likely more}. This makes me unparalleled for not putting you in a box preemptively, which is much more labor and recovery for me, but results in a high definition experience of being felt and seen for you. Feeling feeling felt for the first time in your life seperate from typical knee jerk assumptions/ judgments is an experience that most have when working with me. This externally enforced sensing can cause a paradigm shift in your perspective of yourself and your ability to pursue a new pattern seperate from what has been entrenched in your experience, as there is now another being who holds the new viewpoint and is seeking data to support this.

When you share what you are working towards and how you want to be perceived I will shift my comprehensive data collection drive to finding moments where this new frame is true, and opportunities to choose a new fork in your thought or action even when the pre existing pattern is dominant. The transformation occurs in the pause, assisted by a compassionate witness who holds the vision of your preferred path.

I give what I wish to recieve, attunement.

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📹 By yoni

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Body Dom

Do you crave complete somatic surrender?

Do you want to feel your body played like a professional instrument?

Do you long to be holistically taken care of, body, mind, and spirit, by an attuned nourishing presence that holds your wellness as their motivating force?

Then body domming is your dream come true.

What is a body dom?

A body dom specializes in the art of professionally conducting the orchestra of sensation in your body as their beloved instrument. Body domming draws from diverse disciplines : massage, contact improvisation, body handling, corporeal consent, somatic therapy, sensual wrestling, surgical bodywork, psychedelic / trance state navigation, and sensation play. Body domming creates a generous, compassionate contact container of high access to an exquisitely attuned embodiment expert’s physicality. Within this corporeal container, an expansive playtonic permissionary perspective encourages you to fully inhabit your intuition through emancipating expression without reservation – catalyzing a co-creative space of fluid, free improvisation.

Body domming is a revelatory rapturous release if you spend most of your time trapped in your head, intellect, future, or past, for this perceptive penetration is forced presence via pressure—a movement meditation squeezing out all other stimuli to focus on the present moment at the point of contact – giving weight and waiting for you, the receiver, to relax. The immediacy-inspiring intensity of sensation is a forcing function for increasing interoception, dilating internal sensations that were previously able to be numbed or ignored, and surfacing subconscious communications to be sorted by sentient awareness through compassionate cathARTic witnessing and freedom forward facilitation.

Lest you consider this punative, body domming also can feel like you are being lovingly mothered. Through transpersonal tactile transmutations, you receive reparative experiences of rebirth, being held in a welcoming womb, cradled, feeling cared for and nourished as an adored baby. This radical reference allows you to repattern your attachment system towards uncomplicated caregiving, encouraging courage in expressing your needs and desires, and recalibration towards how ecstatically expansive you can feel in your body, empowering new prosocial perspectives for overall orientation.

This modality is also flexible enough to encompass experiences of pushing against, away, and being felt in embodied strength, anger, and other disowned emotions, sheparding you into somatic sovereignty. Through high-resolution attunement, your nervous system can finally feel the trust necessary to discharge frozen survival responses and liberate that energy that had been previously padlocked into patrolling triggers and traumas toward a greater depth of immersion in and authentic response to life as it presents in the moment.

If your nervous system is chronically in a fight / flight / freeze / fawn state, proximity to peace via a nearby regulated nervous system through touch and breath are the only reliable ways to communicate safety to pre-verbal parts. Through body domming you can bypass the wordy quagmire of social misinterpretation with a direct line to the humanimal nervous system – finally entering into a restorative parasympathetic state – the rest and digest, tend and befriend, and mate and relate mode that is the foundation for creativity, flow, and connection to self and other. If you are working on a convoluted issue that you are unable to solve through top-down processing, entering into this bottom-up sensate state allows access to the full wisdom and data processing capabilities of your subconscious as it speaks through the body, and can result in revelations around the solution you are seeking through feeling and freeing the foundations of your form.

This practice is expanding and could include you! If you are curious for more detailed left brain logistix or are ready to apply please email x @ Raz. Ma